tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post1142717089499901241..comments2024-03-29T03:14:50.711-07:00Comments on Does my bum look 40 in this?: Two birds, one stoneKathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comBlogger56125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-59231445108327301842015-12-10T13:39:20.350-08:002015-12-10T13:39:20.350-08:00I know EXACTLY what you mean! thank you for your l...I know EXACTLY what you mean! thank you for your lovely comments my love xxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-60213992083774395502015-12-10T13:38:52.806-08:002015-12-10T13:38:52.806-08:00Thank you so much and hope you're having a tru...Thank you so much and hope you're having a truly wonderful time my love xxxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-18044602171324564572015-12-10T13:36:34.534-08:002015-12-10T13:36:34.534-08:00Thank you xxxThank you xxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-35405897979037478672015-12-10T13:36:06.038-08:002015-12-10T13:36:06.038-08:00Oh phew. It's such a relief to know I'm no...Oh phew. It's such a relief to know I'm not the only one xxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-75557343409997299592015-12-10T13:35:33.899-08:002015-12-10T13:35:33.899-08:00Thank you xxxxThank you xxxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-25952686650048374422015-12-10T13:34:30.862-08:002015-12-10T13:34:30.862-08:00OMG I love it! I was wondering earlier whether I c...OMG I love it! I was wondering earlier whether I could take Ginny.. Not sure you're allowed dogs in church?! Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-61984013515271801442015-12-10T13:33:54.265-08:002015-12-10T13:33:54.265-08:00thank you so much xxthank you so much xxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-7828355467899884232015-12-10T13:33:39.886-08:002015-12-10T13:33:39.886-08:00You have made my day xxxYou have made my day xxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-51711347553373944152015-12-10T13:33:09.536-08:002015-12-10T13:33:09.536-08:00Thank you thank you thank you xxxxThank you thank you thank you xxxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-29956945520625071482015-12-10T13:31:03.321-08:002015-12-10T13:31:03.321-08:00Thank you my love xxxThank you my love xxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-31467490545540218252015-12-10T13:30:20.732-08:002015-12-10T13:30:20.732-08:00Thank you my love xxThank you my love xxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-71276223153469248002015-12-10T13:30:04.815-08:002015-12-10T13:30:04.815-08:00Don't laugh but I would wear nude tights. You...Don't laugh but I would wear nude tights. You can get some great ones, just make sure they're not shiny. Matt is the way forward. And randomly, the cheaper the better!Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-46017876117985665432015-12-10T13:28:47.044-08:002015-12-10T13:28:47.044-08:00Thank you xxxxThank you xxxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-46608146449848088412015-12-10T13:28:32.048-08:002015-12-10T13:28:32.048-08:00Thank you my darling friend xxThank you my darling friend xxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-38584570914140196562015-12-10T13:27:50.386-08:002015-12-10T13:27:50.386-08:00We are so hoping to make it a positive occasion, w...We are so hoping to make it a positive occasion, we really really are. xxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-91699098510880401112015-12-10T13:27:12.649-08:002015-12-10T13:27:12.649-08:00Thank you xxxxThank you xxxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-56745088023659154302015-12-10T13:26:52.047-08:002015-12-10T13:26:52.047-08:00Thank you xxxThank you xxxKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-65807837027379568242015-12-10T13:26:34.067-08:002015-12-10T13:26:34.067-08:00Thank you xx I know what you mean but I'm hopi...Thank you xx I know what you mean but I'm hoping it will be a really positive occasion... but who knows. One thing I've learnt about this whole process is that it's impossible to predict how you feel until it happens xKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874946171943263803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-11527528834885947842015-12-09T05:59:49.980-08:002015-12-09T05:59:49.980-08:00You're handling things your own way & it h...You're handling things your own way & it happens to be exactly how I deal with grief. I'm not great handling 'heavy' stuff so have to deal with things how I feel best & sometimes people can't understand my apparent flippant attitude. You know the saying "if I don't laugh, I'll cry"? Well, that pretty much sums me up!<br />Navy is absolutely fine for a funeral & I adore the dresses with knots around the stomach area, perfect for me. And thank you for bringing the Jaeger outlet to my attention........or maybe not thank you actually.........!!<br />Sending you much love xxxSarah @ Fortytherapyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12346977496125352598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-74047067006809396332015-12-08T21:08:26.258-08:002015-12-08T21:08:26.258-08:00Humour is great, it gets you through. My mum and I...Humour is great, it gets you through. My mum and I shared a rather warped sense of humour and it's her laugh I miss more than anything. Other people don't always see the funny side of things in the same way that my mum and I did, although my daughter is showing signs of being just the same, thank god! I wore a black dress splashed with bright flowers for my mums funeral (not my usual style at all) as I wanted her to notice me! Don't ever apologise for how you handle grief and it's your blog so u can say what you want, I'm just pleased that you're still finding time and spirit to post at all, I love your blog and yes I am logging on and reading on my honeymoon as promised! (Must change my name here so it matches my IG name) xx Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17476292262913486206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-2663693770399060502015-12-08T11:30:27.730-08:002015-12-08T11:30:27.730-08:00So sorry to hear about your Mum. If it was me I...So sorry to hear about your Mum. If it was me I'd be dealing with it in much the same way - better dark humour than none at all. Having been to one too many funerals, my only advice is don't spend too much or get too attached to what you wear because you'll always think of it as 'my funeral dress'; also make sure you're comfortable. Lots of love xxxxLynxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026367509041611686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-67819271838166602692015-12-08T07:30:54.950-08:002015-12-08T07:30:54.950-08:00Kat, thank you for your blog, I read it daily. My ...Kat, thank you for your blog, I read it daily. My heart goes out to you, I lost my mom a few years back. It's good to know there are kindred spirits out there, I thought for awhile I was a little crazy... that at all of my darkest times, fashion was on my mind. What to wear, what to buy, digging things out from my closet and trying them on... somehow helped me cope. I hope you find peace, in your humor, in your fashion, friends, family, wherever and however it comes.Susienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-34115232353683586002015-12-08T05:47:05.823-08:002015-12-08T05:47:05.823-08:00I'm sorry for your loss, Kat. I'm thinkin...I'm sorry for your loss, Kat. I'm thinking of you and your family.<br />Don't (ever) apologize for handling this difficult time with a sense of humor. You are genuinely funny and I always laugh while reading your blog posts (I still crack up when I think back on your leather wonton phrase). You need to make yourself feel better or at least have those light moments of laughter. You do you, Kat, because you're great.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-35795661619231126742015-12-08T05:36:12.180-08:002015-12-08T05:36:12.180-08:00Hi Kat. I have been following your blog for a litt...Hi Kat. I have been following your blog for a little while but never commented before. First I wanted to say thank you for this blog it has been something I look forward to reading whenever you post. Thought I might bring a smile to your face when I tell you that I have specified that anyone attending my funeral/wake can only come if they are accompanied by a dog. I am smiling just at the thought of the chaos that will cause:) Death is part of life and you can't have one without the other. As far as grieving is concerned well, why would anyone expect you to do it any other way than you do everything else, with style! debbienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534534978347181935.post-37700882240721561742015-12-08T03:46:25.638-08:002015-12-08T03:46:25.638-08:00Kat, I am sorry for your loss. Your strength is am...Kat, I am sorry for your loss. Your strength is amazing and inspiring..."never mind the haterz", you grieve how you grieve. <br />As someone above said, you are a tribute to your mother. TippchicMaureen Ryan OThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08222400690148999514noreply@blogger.com