How to survive Black Friday
Well - my first piece of advice would be, swerve it. BUT (and who are we kidding?!) it would surely be rude not to take advantage of some of the amazing offers that are out there?
I think we should play them at their own game and definitely make the most of the offers whilst they're around this weekend.
Especially as you're more likely to get what you want now, than wait for the sale when it inevitably will be sold out.
Is it possible to snag a bargain?
Well, I have come up with some rules that IF you follow, you shouldn't make a mistake. To be honest, these are generic shopping rules but I find somehow, my brain (what's left of it) decides to take a sabbatical and I turn into a headless chicken and buy EVERYTHING when there's an offer on or there's a sale. Because it's a bargain.
So before you go in - I would maybe have a read of these. No, none of them are rocket science, but sometimes it does take a reminder to remember them.
- If in doubt stick to a colour palette If you don't have anything else fuchsia pink yet decide on the spur of the moment you HAVE to have that jumper - you may find that by Monday, you'll realise you didn't. Do not impulse buy a colour you don't usually wear *stares at green coat hanging in wardrobe and weeps*.
- Know your lifestyle. That skirt is marvellous. Seriously how often will you wear it.....on the school run, at playgroup, in the supermarket..... Do not buy something that you don't usually wear just because you "might" or you "should". You won't.
- And on that subject, only buy something if you can think of three occasions when you will wear it. Go on.... (and you can wear almost anything on Christmas Day, I've discovered)
- Sticking with three - you must be able to make three outfits with it, from things you already own in your wardrobe (that skirt you want for example.. will you need new tops, new boots and a new jacket/coat to go with it??! Put the skirt back.)
- "Don't you have one of those already?", courtesy of The Husband. Buy three black polo necks but make sure they're all different shapes, sleeve lengths, knits and go with different trousers/skirts/for different occasions. The same black jumper shape in a black cable knit does not count. Buy it in a different colour instead (from your colour palette...put that pink jumper back. By the way, I now really want a pink jumper!)
- Would you buy it if at the same reduced price if it was full price in Zara...? Are you just buying it because it's a bargain? Do you REALLY love it?
- And my fave (which I'm sure someone told me on here actually and I have shamelessly stolen and added to my list) - if it doesn't look as good on as the outfit you wore into the changing room does, don't buy it.
Now, I will admit, I haven't decided if I'm keeping them yet (ok so I so have - they will get wrapped up for Christmas). But as they are two things I have had on my list for so long, I feel totally justified in buying them (especially as they both go with lots of things I have had for years and years AND will work especially well with the £20 New Look bargain trousers which = justification right there and none other needed).
Golden Goose Superstar trainers £265 from Shoescribe (zero discount)
My advice would be is that these are tiny. Mine's a Large. It's not that large.
PS - the only bargain I am way more pleased at snagging than I should be is Fifa 16 for only £25 for the Xbox 360. I need to get out more. This is until I go to pick it up at Asda tomorrow and find they've sold out but they're happy to refund me... hmmmmm.
So glad that you got the Bella jumper, it really suits you.ove your outfit Kat. The one thing that I wanted is sold out on asos .. I'm sure they " remove" some items before these events. May be a cynical view
ReplyDeleteI pressed " publish" before I had finished!. Those wine leather leggings with the grey are just perfect ! Love !
Deleteoh god no I completely agree..... the Bella Freud jumper online was in my basket at midnight and "sold out" at 12.01..... REALLY??! Gap apparently remove all their cashmere from store...
DeleteThe fuckwits!! Agh
DeleteFeeling smug I just took ownership of a pink roll neck jumper from Boden!!!!
ReplyDeleteHA!!! (I have my eye on a Maison Scotch one but I just know I wouldn't wear it as much as another colour... Says she who bought a MINT green jumper which, admittedly was only £36 from M&S!)
DeleteReading this I was reminded of (notoriously 'thrifty') MiL, usual wearer of tweedy pieces and strange 'mum jeans' with lavender sweaters when I took her sales shopping when she was over from Ireland. Her purchase? Fuchsia pink polyester-made-to-look-like silk palazzo pants that looked as though they were at least 10 inches longer than her little legs. Never imagined her wearing them, never saw her wear them but hey, they were cheap. She has a knack for finding the kinds of pieces you can't believe ever got made in the first place (that extends to the presents she buys, but thats a whole other subject).
ReplyDeleteVery, very envious of the Bella Freud 1970 jumper. My heart's desire.
Haha!!
DeleteLove this, we've all done similar in the sales to your MIL X
Deleteoh we have SO all done this! I think I might be a bit in love with your mil....!
DeleteI'm a new reader to your blog - love it. I have a pair of golden goose slides and I love them, I have been hankering after a pair of superstars and have been trying to hold out for sales but sod it I'm going to get them right now! Thank you for releasing me from my shoppers block. Hmm I've always fancied a bella Freud jumper ( reaches for credit card) ...
ReplyDeleteHonestly, if there is a colour you want, they are becoming more and more popular so I wouldn't wait. If you live in trainers a lot of the time, you will get your money's worth x 100000000. And well - the Bella F jumper is a classic for sure....
DeleteOk, help me out here. Why spend a huge amount of money on trainers that are... Dirty?! genuinely, I can't see it. Ah well each to their own and I do love your blog! X
ReplyDeleteoh gosh you're not the only one, fear not! My daughter thinks they're vile. As do lots of other people. I will say though, that they do (randomly!!) wear better than the Stans, for example, as they never look "worn". And totally each to their own - wouldn't it be a dull dull world if we all walked around in the same thing xxx
DeleteKat I'm in two minds to get the 1979's jumper in black or red, what do you think? Also is a large a size 10 or 12? I'm a size 8 top in most high street brands, do you think a medium would fit! Thanks
ReplyDeleteI meant 1970 Bella Freud jumper*
DeleteI knew what you meant! Well, I think it depends on what colours you usually wear. I could easily have got the black and worn it loads, I really would have done. But I hvae lots of black jumpers but NO red ones at all. And I think (because it has the black in it), it would work so well with all my blacks and greys that I have. So I wanted one that was a bit different... but I could easily have worn the black one too.... I would say you may well be a Small if you're a HS 8. I am v tall and v broad and prefer a 12 in most HS tops. Hope that helps xxx
DeleteYou're always so helpful, love your blog keep up the great work.
DeleteYou're welcome xx
DeletePlease can I have your whole outfit when you're done with it (everything)!!!! Hair looks pretty good to me. I still can't do GG - just not cool enough I guess x
ReplyDeleteIt is completely you, isn't it?!! (and yes you can. But I won't be done with it ever!)
Deleteooh, I'm the commenter who thought the Bella 1970 red was a bit orangey...what did you think?? It looks a lovely red in your picture, and every picture I see of it, I'm hoping I didn't get an odd colour run of it (although I got it from NAP, and I even rang up BF who confirmed it was a bit orangey) Have now exchanged for the black which I've worn loads but I still rue the red not looking right on me.
ReplyDeleteI see completely what you mean - it's a tomatoey red as opposed to a ruby. But actually it worked much much better than I thought it would! It's the identical red to the check on the Zara coat you can see in the background. I'm v surprised it works (but I think it does)
DeleteMust suit your darker colouring then, although I'm blonde and I see it looking good in photos on lots of blonde ladies..it must be my skin tone then, I can't really do anything orange toned. But glad you like it and glad you got it, am amazed you got it with a discount, its excluded from a lot of offers (along with everything else I was hoping to get a deal on!)
DeleteI can't work out why it works on me but I didn't put it on and want to puke which is what normally happens when I put something red on. I wonder if it is having the blonder lights in my hair? Who knows. I'm not a colour expert but I know that I feel good in it which is the main thing!
DeleteI only got one thing on black Friday and that wasn't clothes related - a Babyliss super curl that I've been hankering after for ages - £75 from Debenhams! (Very had it for £60 but sold out)
ReplyDeleteThat's a complete steal!
DeleteOh it was so so lovely and hopefully I'll be doing more like it. Have a couple of ideas up my sleeve.. And yes, that may well have been me, I was in the Connaught St store on Thursday. It's gorgeous, isn't it? The jeans, I've not tried the skinnies but I have tried on their flares from last season and they're lovely. I would say totally true to size x
ReplyDeleteI loooooove the Bella as you know. I ordered the Ginsberg yesterday morning from Harrods with 10% off then saw your tip off about Coggles and reordered with 30% off - nice one lady. Also love the grey blazer/sweater combo you're wearing. Toosh x
ReplyDeleteWHOOP!!!
DeleteKat you cannot say that about your beautiful green coat. I have tried to track one down in size like a woman possessed with no absolutely no luck. Its my favourite thing in your wardrobe!
ReplyDeleteWell I may be selling it soon!
DeleteOoo please let Me/us know if you do ( if it's not too cheeky)
DeleteWill do!
DeleteThe 1970 jumper is fab, the red really suits you. I really can't do orangey reds (like the poster above), I am dark but suit cooler toned colours. I could so do the black or burgundy, though ;).
ReplyDeleteLove the Golden Goose trainers, but I love distressed boots, bags etc. I can hear my partner saying "I saw you coming" in Harry Enfield 's voice - not that I care!
Randomly my other half really likes them... go figure! He did used to say that about all the distressed furniture I used to buy though!
DeleteHi Kat, if you're still after the black golden goose sneakers - they're on sale at shoescribe for £135 with free p&p, as are your red ones. I've gone with the black, but am now very tempted to get the red too! I've ordered them in size 6 & I'm hoping they run true to size, as I've nevar even tried a pair on before! Now I'm off to look for a pompom beanie. 😁
ReplyDeleteOMG you utter utter genius! Have reordered and will be sending the others back. x
DeleteYaayyy.... Result! 😁 xx
DeleteThanks for this. Put my order in.
DeleteSo are they True to Size? I'm between sizes, should I size up or down (a US 6.5). My neighbor told me to size down. Thoughts???
DeleteIn between size, I would say size up. I'm a 6.5 and wear a 7. xx
DeleteThank you!!!!!
DeleteKat can you recommend any Pom Pom beanie please? I would love a black or beige colour thank you
ReplyDeleteI ordered a grey chunky cable pompom beanie from ASOS for only a tenner if that helps? I have to say I am rather taken by the double pompom beanies - but am slightly worried I may end up looking like a human Miney Mouse?! Kat, usually has great tips though so I would be interested to see what choices she may come up with, cause you can never have to many winter woollies, right? Over to you Kat...... x
DeleteThank you Elaine, I will have a look on ASOS for that beanie. Matalan have a really nice funky grey knit beanie with a yellow Pom Pom, I'm tempted to get it but it will only go with some outfits however for £8 it would be rude not to get it. Still looking for a nice grey, black or beige beanie with a medium- large fluffy Pom Pom. Tried on Topshop beanies today but sadly they did not sit nicely on my head.
DeleteHave to say I'm not the hugest fan of the double pompom as, you've hit the nail on the head - I think it does look a bit like ears! I'm sure someone has found a great one at Warehouse.. Mine is from Black and I love it.
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