Are you having a Pocahontas moment?

Me?  Well... I don't know that I am.

It's not that I'm not loving all of these treasures that I've found and keep coming across, it's just there are so many trends out there that I adore.  And one of the things I personally have found during the journey into my 40s, is that it's pretty difficult to do all the trends all of the time.

Why is that?  Well, for a start there are only so many days in a season and only so many outfits you can wear.  One thing which is very important to me is cost per wear.  I like things that are versatile and I like things that I can wear with a lot.  Which means I don't necessarily like buying lots and lots of things.  (I know it may not seem like that but I actually buy very little.  Honest guv.  Which reminds me, I need to do a Purchase Tally...... I may have been a saint in New York but there were a couple of splurges in the sale beforehand.  I will be back with that, I promise)

As much as I do love fashion, I sort of feel that for me, at 42, there are only so many trends I can embrace at one time and in one season, so it's a question, for me, of picking and choosing.  There is still a deranged Parisian (who yes, has turned to the gin after my little revelation of the Toga Pulla dinosaur sandals yesterday) battling inside me to get out.  (she's passed out at the moment so we're ok to throw this one in) 

I'm talking fringing.  Some might say Pocahontas, some may say 70s boho.  Personally I'm saying no.  For me.  At the moment.  (this is subject to change - I still have some of that humble pie left kicking around from yesterday and I'm not afraid to eat it.) 

I love the look and the idea of it - I just don't know if it's me.  Or should I say, I don't know if it's me this season. 

The easiest way to get on board is with a bag.  And I think the softest and most aesthetically pleasing bag to fringe is a suede one. 

There are some stunning ones around - you don't have to spend a fortune either.  

Ok - so I haven't even listed the first item and I can already feel myself starting to crumble.... Just a smidge off the edge of a digestive, but if someone dunks that biscuit, I'm a goner. 


Pieces Leather £80 was £48 in grey.






And this is a dunker of a bag if ever I saw one.  I LOVE this.  Accessorize have upped their game this season with their leather versions.  I do think that if you're going to go for a suede tassel bag, it's got to be real suede so that the fringing has some oomph about it and hangs properly.  A woofy, slightly anaemic looking fringe would be wrong on every level.

Grey leather fringed bag from Accessorize £55  They say this is grey - to me it looks definitely a beigey colour.... Either way, whatever the description it's the perfect Spring/Summer shade.


Leather Fringe Saddle Bag £65 At Accessorize (well, suede...)



But they do have leather versions at Next.  Although they do look like suede fringing.  Or tassels.  What is the difference between fringing and tassels?  One you can wear on your nipples and one you can't?  The mind boggles.  

White leather at Next £58

And a black version too. 




Now if you don't fancy full on fringing but more of a tassel then look no further than this amazing bag from River Island.  Very Balenciaga in my book - looks miles better in the flesh than it does in online.  If you're looking for a black leather bag that looks much more expensive than its price tag, my money would be on this one.  It also has a ring of the Sando bag that I loved last season (which they do every season) but is a 5th of the cost. (and no huge River Island bling hardware on it either.)

Black leather zip and tassel bowler bag £70.   


The slouch of the leather is sublime.


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Dare I mention fringe clothes?  It's at this juncture that I feel we need to part company with suede.  Suede fringing.  I'm trying desperately to think of a piece of clothing that would work for me and, bar fancy dress, I've come up blank.  

However that's not to say it's a no go completely - let's just bin the suede.  Keep that for the bags and I think I've managed to find a couple of items that I not only think are pretty ok, I would willingly wear.  Please don't underestimate how long it's taken me to find these...... there is a quagmire of tat adorned with fringing out there, that's all you need to know. 

This though, I love.  

Abercrombie & Fitch Judy Fuzzy Poncho (I kid you not) £64 (online exclusive so I can put aside the humble pie at not having tried to hunt this down in NY)  In grey.




I'm scraping the fringing barrel here but there is still a hint of it... and it's a gorgeous top.  70s boho vibe, just exquisite. 

Maison Scotch blouse with fringing £75


In for a penny, in for a 70s pound.  Fringing on print.  It sounds so wrong yet I think this could really work for the Summer.  I mentioned that I have this Ibiza vibe big party in the Summer and so am on the look out now for things to wear.  This could definitely fit the bill. 

Glamorous Tile print shift dress with fringing £36


However I have saved the best till last and actually yet again, I am talking out of my hole.  So whilst I said I didn't want to do fringing, I should have said, I didn't think I could justify the purchase of a fringed bag (apart from the River Island one which I'm trying hard not to press buy on.  If I didn't have the bargain Zara one from the sale, I absolutely would.  In a heartbeat.  And I'm going with it being a tassel bag not a fringe bag....Semantics schemantics).  I am desperately trying though to justify the purchase of this fringed jacket. 

This for me is a thing of beauty.  I would happily marry Peter Pan if it means I got to wear this.  I am just desperately trying to work out how to buy this from the French site as opposed to the UK site as if you buy it in Euro and not £, it is considerably less now. 




This was me trying it on in New York where, with the exchange rate, it would have cost £520!

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Matching bag too much? (god I do NOT know where to stop, do I?  Note to self, must try and blog without wine....) 

Fringed Shoulder bag £19.99 from H&M

Back in the room though and finishing with a little faux suede gem from H&M - I know I know, I said no suede clothes but this for me summarises how to wear a new trend.  Yes, it's taken me round the tassel houses to work it out, but work it out I have. 

It does depend on your personal style but for me, less is more.  It's about having mostly classics.  It's about having a neutral base as a colour palette.  And it then means you can add in an on trend piece.  Oh GO ON THEN, maybe you can add in two...... (yes, that'll be two glasses of wine I've had - it's half term, I'm doing well).  By keeping the rest of your look timeless, adding in a new season item keeps it up to date without someone throwing mint sauce at you. 

They're my ramblings anyway - thoughts??  

Oh and here's the jacket.  I think, plain black or white tee, straight leg indigo jeans with a turn up and a pair of white sneakers - yup, that'd work in my book.  (and a plain classic bag please.  You can keep the fringe bags I've decided.  I love them but I'm not sure they'll love the rest of my wardrobe.  Phew.  Decision made.  This does not include the River Island bag which is a hint of a tassel bag and not a fringe one.  Just in case anyone questions me *should* I cave on it.  Yes I am going to see if they have it in any other colours....)

Fringed Jacket from H&M £29.99


Outfit from yesterday.  Lovely day with the 10yr old whilst my two small boys went to football.  Had friends over for supper which was great.  The sun shone, we had wine, half term is going well.  

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Black and white jumper - Hush
Indigo straight leg jeans turned up - Jigsaw
Black boiled wool coat - Ronit Zilkha
Black quilted bag - Zara
White leather sneakers - Zara

Hope everyone else is surviving half term.  Have to say we're doing well here.  Which clearly has jinxed everything and tomorrow will be car crash.  PAH!

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  1. I'm very partial to fringe on a bag but bloody hell, why oh why post that River Island bag that I now really, REALLY want!! It's gorgeous :D. The H&M one is fab too. Oh, and tassels have knots, fringe doesn't! ;) x

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    1. IT's amazing isn't it??! I defy anyone to guess it's from RIver Island! And thank you for clearing up my fringing/tassel issue. That makes perfect sense.

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  2. Not sure I can do the whole fringe thing. I'm more if a "clean lines" girl :). That RI bag looks interesting though....

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    1. Aha, you may have hit the nail on the head there. Although I do think if the rest of your outfit/wardrobe is streamlined then one statement fringe thingy could work. The fringing on the Sandro jacket really doesn't bother me funnily enough...

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  3. Love a bit of fringe - I bought the camel fringed suede Kate Moss jacket at Topshop last year, fab with lighter blue jeans and a pale grey tshirt or with all black underneath. Also love moccasins, usually buy Minnetonka ones in the US where they're less than half the price they are here (when you can find them).

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    1. oh that sounds gorgeous. But you've lost me at moccasins...!!

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  4. That ibiza dress would look lovely on you, the RI bag is good as well and love the Sandro jacket - just none of it on me. Yes I am getting old and my first thought is 'that'll tangle in the wash' - like the poncho as well ......

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    1. oooh maybe I'm not so old as that didn't occur to me! Alas I think it might just be that I'm not that domestic... DARN IT!

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    2. I'm off to France in March, Le Touquet - you'll have to let me know if you still want that jacket.......

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  5. I bet you can imagine my opinion on fringing.....it's about a million miles away from my personal aesthetic! Although I do like the Maison Scotch bag. That Zara bag you've got on (is 'got on' the right term - you're not alone on the half term wine!) today is stunning.

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    1. ha ha ha - oh you wait.... you'll be swinging with fringing come July!

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    2. we shall see young lady we shall see

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  6. Kat, have you ever looked at the website "dressimi"?
    It tries to tell you what to wear based on your physical sizes.
    I inputted my vital statistics and purely because I'm 5'11" it said "oh your willowy frame can carry anything off" (SNORT! I'm about as willowy as a park of gnarled oak trees.)
    I think you should have a peek.

    Lu xx

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    1. Oh and LOVE the fringing. How about cowboy boots, have you looked at them for a spring fling?!
      Lu xx

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    2. ooh no I haven't - I'll check it out. Cowboy boots - hmm I think the western edge to the Toga Pullas is enough for me...!

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  7. Not that I'm trying to enable you with the Sandro jacket but you can just change the first part of the web address from uk.sandro to fr.sandro and the jacket is €345 which converts to around £250. No idea if there is a way to buy it at that price without being in France!

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    1. that's what I tried to do - need to see if I can get it sent to the UK though..!! It's so so much cheaper (is actually worth going to Paris for the day to buy it..!)

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  8. Ever since you posted that Sandro bag I've been lusting after it. Discovered they have quite a few nearly new ones on Vestiaire Collective - perhaps because it is a French site. They are priced in euros so with £ conversion you can get one for £140-£180....I must admit I succumbed and am now waiting for mine to arrive....

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    1. OOOH which colour did you get? That's a fab idea, thank you xx

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    2. It's a dark khaki/green - this colour was exactly the hole in my handbag wardrobe too, which swung it. It's currently being "verified and checked" by Vestiaire so I guess I might get it next week. So excited...

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